Archive for January, 2009
Baby Shower tips
A very nice custom which facilitates the parents to be to get a lot of useful gifts for their unborn baby is by way of a shower party. This is a party which is arranged by family of the parents to be and close friends and each person presents them with something which the new baby will require. The shower party allows parents to get most of the baby items they will need before the baby’s birth so that they do not have to worry with the additional expense and it is also the thoughtfulness of the friends and relatives which matters. In certian regions this is done only after the baby’s birth, still the proverbial baby shower is done before its birth.
Baby showers are in general held for women only and they invite the mother to be only, however, the fathers are also invited sometime and other men also participate in it. According to tradition this was a party built specially for the women. Sometimes the father to be’s male friends, organizes a baby shower party for the father alone.
There are baby stores which give gift coupons of different denominations which allows the parents to select what they need for the baby themselves and there is no duplication of gifts or useless gifts.
Baby showers are carried out in different countries according to their own customs and traditions. The Jews usually do not give gifts before the child’s birth; some have the get gathering at the seventh month of pregnancy and others towards the end of the pregnancy. Earlier all these functions were for women only in all the cultures but now with the Western influence most get-to-gethers are for both father and mother. This was also done only for the first born of the family initially, but at the present scenarioit takes place for the birth of all the children.
The baby shower party is normally hosted by a close friend of the parent to be. The party resembles much like a normal fun party with music and games and good food. The person who is organizing the party may coordinate it along with other close friends and organize it jointly. Invitations are given out and these are specially made for baby showers. There is a theme for the party much like there is for weddings and bridal showers. Usually the theme is the baby here.
Baby Gifts range from diapers, baby cribs, feeding bottles, baby foods, prams, sheets and other useful items for the baby. Many give gift coupons which the parents can use to buy things which are required in future. The venue can be at anywhere where parties can be organized, very much like the pre nuptial showers or bachelor’s party before the wedding. It could be at a friend’s home too if it is large enough to host such a gathering.